Your rishta search,
organized.
RokaMaybe is the private tracker for your arranged-marriage journey. AI reads the biodatas, matches the kundlis, logs the calls, and remembers every red flag — so when Mummy asks, you actually have answers.
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5 July 2026
What this actually is
An arranged marriage tracker,
not a matrimonial site.
RokaMaybe is an arranged marriage tracker — a private dashboard for the rishta search you are already having. It shows you no new matches, introduces you to nobody, and puts your profile in front of no one. The people in it are the ones already coming to you: from matrimonial sites, from the family pandit, from a cousin who knows someone nice.
What it does is hold all of it in one place. Upload a biodata as a PDF, a Word file, or a photo off WhatsApp and AI fills in the details in about thirty seconds. Kundli matching runs the full 36-point Ashtakoot from real birth details, flagging Nadi, Bhakut and Gana dosha where they appear. Every call gets a note, every family gets a scorecard of its own, and every red flag you spot at eleven at night is still there next month when Mummy asks why you went off that one.
Each rishta moves through five stages — new, call, meet, met, decision — so you always know where things stand without scrolling back through three WhatsApp threads. When it comes down to a final few, Compare puts up to three of them side by side across eighteen dimensions. Your notes stay yours: nothing is shared between users, nothing is sold, and you can delete all of it in one click.
The current situation
Sunday, 4 p.m. Mummy has questions.
You have screenshots.
Twenty-seven biodatas across WhatsApp, three matrimonial apps, one pandit's blurry kundli photo, and a cousin who “knows someone nice”. This is not a search. This is chaos with a deadline.
The fix
One dashboard. Zero lost rishtas.
Everything you're juggling in your head, your gallery, and four family group chats — structured, scored, and searchable.
Real 36-guna Kundli Milan. Not a gimmick.
Full Ashtakoot matching computed from actual birth details — Nadi, Bhakut, and Gana doshas flagged automatically. (Still consult your pandit for the final word. We insist.)
AI reads biodatas so you don't have to
Drop a PDF, Word doc, or a photo from WhatsApp. In 30 seconds every field is filled — name, age, family, kundli details, the works.
A 5-step journey, zero “umm, let me check”
From “new lead” to “decision” — one clear journey bar tells you exactly where every conversation stands.
A journal for every call
Who you talked to, what was said, how you felt after. Next Sunday, you'll have receipts.
Rate the family separately
Sometimes the person is lovely and the family is a red-flag factory. Eight dimensions, five stars each. You'll know.
Decision Matrix, for D-day
Compare up to 3 prospects side by side on 18 dimensions. The best kundli isn't always the right answer.
Getting started
Three steps. Fifteen minutes.
From the field
The Red Flag Hall of Fame.
Real quotes from first calls and second meetings. Shared with permission. Logged forever. This is why the red flag log exists.
“You can work after marriage. From home. Part-time. If there's time after cooking.”
“What's your salary? Just asking so we know how much you'll contribute to the wedding.”
“You'll obviously delete public Instagram after the roka, right?”
“I don't have anger issues. People just keep making me angry.”
“I don't believe in sharing household work. That's why we'll have a maid. For you to manage.”
“I'm okay with a working wife. As long as dinner is hot by 8.”
“You can work after marriage. From home. Part-time. If there's time after cooking.”
“What's your salary? Just asking so we know how much you'll contribute to the wedding.”
“You'll obviously delete public Instagram after the roka, right?”
“I don't have anger issues. People just keep making me angry.”
“I don't believe in sharing household work. That's why we'll have a maid. For you to manage.”
“I'm okay with a working wife. As long as dinner is hot by 8.”
“I need a 3BHK minimum. Your parents can visit — not live.”
“What car do you drive? No reason. Just checking compatibility.”
“Can you get your promotion confirmed before the roka? Papa is asking.”
“My last rishta broke because he wouldn't stop talking to his sister. Weird, na?”
“I want a simple wedding. 800 guests, max.”
“My father will call your office to verify your package. Don't take it personally.”
“I need a 3BHK minimum. Your parents can visit — not live.”
“What car do you drive? No reason. Just checking compatibility.”
“Can you get your promotion confirmed before the roka? Papa is asking.”
“My last rishta broke because he wouldn't stop talking to his sister. Weird, na?”
“I want a simple wedding. 800 guests, max.”
“My father will call your office to verify your package. Don't take it personally.”
Trust & privacy
Not a matrimonial app. Never will be.
No matches shown. No profiles shared. No data sold. RokaMaybe is your private war room — nobody else gets in, not even us.
Common questions
Questions? Obviously.
No. RokaMaybe doesn't show you new matches or connect you with other users. It's a personal tracker for the prospects you're already meeting — whether they come from matrimonial sites, pandits, relatives, or family friends. Think of it as your private dashboard for your own search.
Nope. RokaMaybe runs in your browser — phone or laptop, doesn't matter.
You upload a biodata PDF, Word doc, or photo. AI reads it and fills in the form — name, age, family details, kundli info, all of it. Saves you a lot of typing. You can review and edit anything before saving.
The calculations are based on real Vedic astronomy — we compute the Moon's position from the birth details and run the full 36-point Ashtakoot. It's accurate for reference. That said, astrology is a deep subject and we always recommend consulting a qualified pandit before making any final decisions.
Yes. Your data lives on secure encrypted servers, and only you can see it. We don't share profiles between users, we don't sell data, and we don't show your information to anyone. You can delete your account and all your data any time you want.
Me — Komal. I built RokaMaybe because I was going through my own rishta search and couldn't find anything that actually helped. If you have feedback or run into issues, email me directly: namaste@rokamaybe.com
“RokaMaybe was my sanity tool before it was an app. Now it's yours too.”
The shaadi is a maybe.
Your sanity shouldn't be.
Free forever for the basics. Set up before your chai gets cold.
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